Catching Elephant is a theme by Andy Taylor

I completely do not think trans people need to disclose they are trans before having sex with someone. If they’ve reached the point in transition where you can’t tell they’re trans without them telling you, why do they need to? It’s in the past. If someone was born with a cleft lip and had that surgically corrected would you expect them to tell you that before you had a one night stand with them? No? So why is this different? Someone’s past is not relevant to the sex you have with them & it won’t affect you one way or another.
Later finding out something you might think is icky about someone you’ve slept with is NOT comparable to rape, I can’t believe there are people who say “if a trans person doesn’t say they’re trans before having sex with someone, it’s rape because they’re misleading their partner”. Give me a break.
I mean yeah, it’s one thing if they LIE and say “no, I’m not trans” if you’ve outright asked them (still not RAPE though), but that’s so unlikely to come up and they shouldn’t just be expected to bring it up out of the blue.
asgarrdian said:
@ambientbruh as i can tell you’ve already noticed, quite a few of the opinions on here are gonna be right leaning considering tumblr itself is majority leftist. if it was a left leaning opinion they wouldn’t feel the need to post it anonymously or to a separate blog, they could just post it on main and get support for their opinion
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salithemage said:
Y'all this post is referring to people who have had bottom surgery already
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amagicdoctor liked this Hm. Pre-op might come up before you undress, in case the partner has a strong preference. But anything else? For a one...
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