I don’t think I’ll ever be able to understand or sympathize with people who self-harm. 

I’ve seen this post circulating Tumblr for a long time now and whilst I do not wish to offend anyone who has had/is having suicidal thoughts, I would like to share my opinion. I completely agree that it must have been very disturbing to see a picture of yourself like this on the internet. However, it’s incomprehensible to me that this girl would be angry at someone who didn’t try to save her. It’s obvious that this girl went up there for a reason and for an onlooker (trust me, I’ve witnessed this) sometimes it’s difficult to decide whether you have the right to intervene.

I mean no offence by this, but if this girl really wanted to die then she would be grateful that this onlooker didn’t try and save her. Why would you go to the top of a building, obviously in an extremely suicidal state, threaten to jump but then call someone who didn’t try and save you “selfish”? If you didn’t want someone taking pictures of you in such a vulnerable state then why make your suicide public? Threatening to jump off a building is obviously going to draw a crowd and the fact remains that someone did talk this girl out of it. She stated that “the last thing I wanted at that moment was to be saved”, well then why does she care so much about one person not trying to save her?

My father is a Police Officer and the amount of times he has had to go out and talk kids off roof tops is unreal. This girl may have wanted to die at the time but in the long run she’s probably glad she lived. It is my opinion that people who go and stand on roof tops don’t really want to go through with the suicide but just want some random member of the public to “save” them and reassure them that life is worth living. If this is the case, then don’t bother going up there, causing a scene, and perhaps even wasting Police time. Just seriously don’t bother. If someone truly wanted to commit suicide they would do it in the privacy of their own home where they might have no chance of being saved. If you don’t want someone taking pictures of you about to jump off a rooftop, then don’t go up there and give them the chance to take these pictures. “Attention-seeking” is a phrase I’m trying to avoid in this opinion but… well, you understand me, I hope.

As I said, I mean no offence by this opinion and, this bit was cut out of the picture, someone said that this particular girl is now dead. If this is the case, then I am sorry. I hope this makes sense.

I Believe that most of the people that self cut and upload pictures with captions like “I’m in pain” “Suffering again” “when I will die” Are attention seekers . I’m not saying that everyone that does this are attention whore but at least the 80% are.

Don’t get me wrong, but I know people that do this with real problems, in medical clinics, in rehab, in therapy.. They can’t talk about it openly, I didn’t talk about it when I cutted, and less taking pictures of it and upload them in my social networks.. 

I know this are real problems, people that feel the need to do it are sick, but go on and read all this “depression” blogs and all they can say when you ask why are they doing that is “Cause I like the pain” “I deserve it” or the worst “I can rely on my cuts”.

Sorry is this offends anyone„ But I find so many stupid attention seekers that think self cutting because their parents grounded them is funny or good that sickens me

(also sory for the english, I’m just learning)

It annoys me when people make a point of arguing against me when I bitch about my mom. 

Me and her have not had/got the best relationship. To sum it, she never wanted me, she wasn’t around much during my childhood (despite that I lived with her.) When she was there, she paid no interest in me and still doesn’t to this day. The woman is the reason I’m messed up now. 

Whenever someone asks and I say that I don’t like her, and that I don’t want her in my future, they start telling me how I’m selfish and how she brought me into this world and brought me up and gave me life etc. etc. etc. 

Respect works both ways. Giving life is fantastic, but if you aren’t prepared to raise your child regardless of it’s needs/wants/problems then don’t have one. My mom has never wanted to deal with me and I’m a burden to her. She ruined my childhood so forgive me if I don’t want my children exposed to that. 

A lot of people say that I’m punishing her, being a teenager or I should (my favorite) “let it go”. It pisses me off. Live what I did and lets see how you feel about your mom afterwards.

To me this perpetual thigh gap trend is so fucking ugly and I can’t wait for it be over. I’m so tired of seeing these stupid ass photos on my dash of rail thin torsos and mile wide thigh gaps with obsessive “omg so beautiful and perff<3” reblogs (time to unfollow a bunch of you). If you have one naturally, that’s your body. It depends on your HIP PLACEMENT and measurements. You don’t really get it from losing a shit load of weight from those thinspo blogs you follow. (In some cases you may never know you get one until you do see one) You can be skinny and still have your thighs rub together. Glamorizing it is stupid. FuckYeahThighGap? Lol more like Fuck Your Thigh Gap.

At first when I joined Tumblr I thought it was wonderful and really opened my eyes to the lives of others, but now it’s just getting ridiculous.

I friggin’ HATE how certain things have become trends. Being shy for example. Some people are introverts and some are extroverts, I know that, but just because you’re not the most popular person around doesn’t mean you can go “OMG I AM SO BAD AT SOCIAL SITUATIONS I AM SO AWKWARD OMG EVERYBODY PROBABLY HATES ME”, especially the ones who then blog a lot about their best friends. YOU DO NOT SUFFER FROM SOCIAL ANXIETY.

What the hell is up with gender nowadays? “Cisgender, gender binary” ??? There are so many new terms that it’s hard to keep up! Why can’t we just be female and male (transgendered or not)? Just because certain parts of your personality don’t match what is typical for your gender doesn’t mean you’re not definitively male or female.

I believe the only sexualities that exist are straight, gay, lesbian and bisexual. Seriously, the number of times people have claimed that they are “pansexual” and then NEVER talk about anything but the opposite gender…

i hate it when everyone takes not agreeing with someones opinions,  life style, or actions as not excepting that person/ group or hating that person/group

 i understand people are sensitive but take your extreme sensitivity some were else and stop making disagreeing out to be hating

and this is to everyone!

 EVERYONE!!!

I generally avoid associating myself with people who have tattoos.  I think they are trashy and speak magnitudes to the amount of class and character a person has. I don’t understand why somebody would degrade their body in such a permanent, open way. I also hate how tattoos have become a fad amongst our generation. If people are willing to conform so much as to etch a butterfly into their shoulder, what else are they willing to do? It’s concerning and no longer “alternative” tattoos are just ugly.

Most of the posts here are about people faking mental illnesses and conditions and stuff, so they could get attention. Just because it’s not completely true, it doesn’t mean it’s completely false and attention seeking either. Hear me out;

I made a test about some mental illnesses and such, and I got really high ratings on psychopathy and narcissism and such. When I mentioned, everybody went, “Oh, you are seeking for attention, you don’t have anything.”

I know, those things can truly be researched only by doctors and such. But you know, not everyone is always lying.

1. They may be concerned about having something
2. They can be like me, got a result in an unofficial test

It’s not that I’d like to go around town “Yay, I could be a psychopath”, but if I can’t even mention the results to a few friends (like, I don’t have to be serious with it), then ok, this… accusing with attention seeking has gone too far.

Here is a picture of two beautiful ladies, and recent new labels I have noticed. 

Don’t say skinny people are ‘unrealistic’. That is the worst feeling, when someone looks at mannequins and says ‘That’s not a normal body, how terrible.’ Because guess what, that makes people with that body feel like CRAP (I do have a mannequin body, I wont say I have the ‘right’ body type all!) Don`t say they are only pretty because they are skinny. Don’t say ‘you can’t post that picture of you at the beach because you might trigger some one.’ Don’t say anything that would make a thin person feel bad, just like you wouldn’t to an overweight person. (And if you do, you’re a sad sick human being)

Skinny shaming is REAL. Fat shaming is REAL. All body types are realistic and beautiful. If you`re dying from your body, that doesn’t make you ugly (Although it is very sad when someone gets to this point on either side of the scale). It makes you unhealthy. BIG difference. Don’t SHAME people for their bodies. 

AND just so there are no misunderstandings, I am not saying either or is worse. I am not saying that Fat shamming is not as big of deal as Skinny shamming. This is simply my opinion on Skinny shamming because recently in the mall I was put down for my small body.