One thing I absolutely hate is when girls use someone who is male for their icons/sidebar. I feel that your icon/sidebar should be something that represents you, something that shows your style, etc. When see an icon I want to think pretty icon = pretty girl, and when someone has an icon that’s a dude, it does the opposite effect. Like no, pick a cute girly icon or something and don’t have a boy as your icon and sidebar, I don’t care who he is, because it makes you look odd that you’re a girl yet you have a guy as it. Your icon should be pretty and not like male hot, unless you are a guy. I do not understand how someone could possible make that their icon. I shudder just thinking about it.