Radfems, please stop getting angry with the idea of the friend zone.The friend zone is very much real and teeming with people (both guys and girls). People who are friend zoned are people who hold an interest in a person who doesn’t return those feelings with the reason being that they can only see said person as a friend. Nothing more, nothing less. A guy being sad about getting friend zoned by a girl he liked is not him being a dick saying, “I tried to be friends with her and now she won’t have sex with me, ugh.” He doesn’t think that the girl in question owes him a relationship. A guy choosing to not be friends with the girl in question after being rejected is not him thinking that the girl in question is obligated to like him. And as a girl, I also feel the need to share that girls can feel friendzoned as well. A girl sometimes ends a friendship with a boy because he doesn’t reciprocate her feelings. Not because she’s angry that he isn’t interested, but because she’s hurt. That’s it. Nothing more, nothing less. In short, stop spewing your “the friend zone isn’t real and is just men thinking we owe them something” bullshit.

Radfems, please stop getting angry with the idea of the friend zone.

The friend zone is very much real and teeming with people (both guys and girls). People who are friend zoned are people who hold an interest in a person who doesn’t return those feelings with the reason being that they can only see said person as a friend. Nothing more, nothing less. A guy being sad about getting friend zoned by a girl he liked is not him being a dick saying, “I tried to be friends with her and now she won’t have sex with me, ugh.” He doesn’t think that the girl in question owes him a relationship. A guy choosing to not be friends with the girl in question after being rejected is not him thinking that the girl in question is obligated to like him. 

And as a girl, I also feel the need to share that girls can feel friendzoned as well. A girl sometimes ends a friendship with a boy because he doesn’t reciprocate her feelings. Not because she’s angry that he isn’t interested, but because she’s hurt. That’s it. Nothing more, nothing less. 

In short, stop spewing your “the friend zone isn’t real and is just men thinking we owe them something” bullshit.

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